READY TO RISE
The Modern Manners Method™
A Live Formal Dinner Etiquette Experience
Polish. Confidence. Presence. Grace. Social Success
Because How You Carry Yourself Matters
We have all had these moments....
Which fork do I use?
How do I introduce myself without feeling awkward?
What do I say to keep the conversation flowing?
Fear of embarrassment or feeling out of place in a professional
or social gathering.
These situations happen every day, and they can leave you
either confident - or second guessing yourself.
And the truth is, these moments aren't coming someday.
They’re already happening.
What You Need Isn't More Rules—It’s Real Practice
Ready To Rise isn’t a lecture.
It’s a hands-on experience where you learn to carry yourself with ease, confidence, and presence—in real life, and at the table.
This in-person event includes a beautifully set multi-course formal dinner, interactive coaching, and the chance to practice the kind of etiquette that helps you feel poised, not pressured.
Because it’s not about perfection.
It’s about giving you the tools—and the time—to grow.
Introducing: The Modern Manners Method™
This is more than an etiquette class. It’s a finishing school experience for the modern age—crafted for those who want to:
Own the room
Dine confidently in formal settings
Make powerful first impressions
Speak with clarity and grace
And develop a personal presence that opens doors
Taught live and in person, this event includes hands-on practice with a full formal dinner, real-world roleplay, and empowering teaching rooted in timeless values.
REGISTRATION PRICING: $150
What You Will Learn:
1. First Impressions & Social Presence
✔ The 7/11 Rule: How people size you up in 7 seconds
✔ Eye contact, posture, and polished introductions
✔ Introducing yourself and others in a way that feels natural and kind
2. Table Manners in the Real World
✔Napkin placement, bread plate basics, and which fork to use
✔The silent signals of dining—when to start, how to pass,
when you're finished
✔What to do when something spills, tastes unfamiliar, or doesn't
go as planned
3. Communication and Social Grace
✔How to engage in conversation respectfully
✔Navigating group dynamics and unfamiliar settings
✔Gratitutde, RSVP etiquette, and social follow-ups
You'll walk away with the confidence to sit at any table
and carry yourself with grace.
REGISTRATION PRICING: $150
Why Modern Manners Matter
Let’s talk about what real life actually feels like:
We live in a fast-paced, high-visibility world where first impressions are made in seconds. Your reputation, opportunities, and relationships often hinge not just on what you say—but how you carry yourself.
Think about it:
A business deal over lunch can be lost because someone didn’t know when to start eating.
A first date can feel awkward if the conversation stalls or drifts into the wrong topics.
A networking event can leave you invisible if you don’t know how to introduce yourself with confidence.
Even at family dinners, small missteps—like reaching across the table or misusing your napkin—can leave lasting impressions.
Modern etiquette isn’t about outdated rules. It’s about confidence, courtesy and connection - skills that make people feel comfortable—while elevating your own presence in the process.
Today we face more pressure than ever to “figure it out” on our own.
But confidence doesn’t come from winging it. It comes from preparation and practice.
The Hidden Social Stress No One Talks About
⚠️ You Might Be Feeling...
😬 Uncertainty at the table – Which fork do I use? Do I start eating when my plate arrives?
🤝 Awkward introductions – How do I introduce my boss to my spouse without stumbling?
🗣 Strained conversations – What do I say to avoid silence… or worse, the wrong topic?
📝 Thank-you confusion – Do I send an email, a card, or nothing at all?
🍴 Buffet blunders – Do I hold my plate and drink at the same time? How do I re-enter the line politely?
😳 Fear of embarrassment – I don’t want to feel out of place in professional or social gatherings.
💫 Need a refresher so you can teach your kids and grandkids proper manners?
What’s Included:
✔ In-person etiquette coaching that meets you where you are -
no pressure, just practice.
✔ Full multi-course formal dinner with guided practice at the table
✔ Real time coaching in introductions, posture and presence
✔ Practical tools for navigating any dining setting with confidence
✔ Conversation starters and strategies for graceful social interactions
✔ A welcoming hands-on, fun experience rooted in timeless values
REGISTRATION PRICING: $150
Meet Your Hostess Coach – Lisa Schoeffler
Lisa has always been passionate about the art of etiquette and the power of presence. From a young age, she recognized how small gestures — eye contact, a gracious introduction, a confident smile, a well-planned dinner party — can transform the way we connect with others. That passion led her to study at The Protocol School of Washington, D.C. and spend years weaving etiquette and social confidence into every role she's taken on.
Graduate of the Protocol School of Washington, D.C.
Experienced corporate event planner
Accomplished real estate professional
Known for blending traditional charm school values with modern expectations.
Lisa blends timeless etiquette principles with modern-day relevance, helping you show up with polish, grace and confidence in every setting.
Who This Is For:
Teens preparing for formal events or college interviews
Professionals and entrepreneurs building confidence in social settings
Grandparents who want to refresh their skills and pass them on
Parents who want to invest in lifelong social skills for their children
Anyone who wants to show up with polish, presence and ease
Event Details
Date: Tuesday, November 4th
Time: 5:45-8:00pm
Location: Casa Bella
391 E. Main Street
Ventura, CA
Includes: Full formal dinner with Etiquette Training
Investment: $150 per seat
✔ In-person etiquette coaching that meets you where you are -
no pressure, just practice.
✔ Full multi-course formal dinner with guided practice
at the table
✔ Real time coaching in introductions, posture and presence
✔ Practical tools for navigating any dining setting
with confidence
✔ Conversation starters and strategies for graceful
social interactions
✔ A welcoming, hands-on, fun experience rooted in
timeless values
Due to the nature of event planning, all ticket sales are final
Because Manners Aren't Just Polite—They’re Powerful
The table is where opportunities unfold.
Where confidence gets noticed.
Where preparation meets poise.
And where you can learn to carry yourself with assurance—no matter who’s sitting beside you.
Due to the nature of event planning, all ticket sales are final.
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